Reblogged from azathfeld
Largely, but I find a lot of guys are really at a loss for where to even start. It seems like it should be obvious that you just talk about what’s there, but it’s not, apparently.
And I really do get a lot of “what do I say to someone with an empty profile?” and I’m like “nothing, the profile is empty, they don’t want to talk to you”.
I thought about that after I sent it. It’s sad that a lot of people wouldn’t know where to start, and not even because they’re all bad, I suppose, but because they’ve learned all the really unhappy ways of approaching people and enough have responded favorably that they think it’s the thing to do.